Entries from November 2008

November 30, 2008

Walking a Tightrope

by Rachel BenDavid (Peduel, Israel)
Those of us new to observant Judaism constantly balance following the laws as we learn them with being sensitive to the feelings of others–especially parents. In some ways it’s like walking a tightrope,  always trying to make sure that we walk that fine line.
I recall at some point in learning the [...]

November 23, 2008

Finding A Place for Myself

by Charlotte Herman (Lincolnwood, IL)
Our apartment on Chicago’s West Side (also known as the “Great Vest Side”) in the 1940’s was where the relatives congregated.
The men sat in the front room smoking cigarettes, and the women drank tea in the dining room. The older ones drank from glasses and sipped the tea through sugar cubes [...]

November 16, 2008

A Succah in Maine

by Roberta Chester (Bar Harbor, ME)
At the appointed time for Tashlich last year, I gingerly picked my way over the rocks along the stretch of the Atlantic Ocean in front of my home in Bar Harbor, Maine. It’s a ritual I repeat every year, yet somehow due to bad timing–-for which there is no excuse [...]

November 9, 2008

The Sacred, Secret World of Women

by Jan Booker (Malibu, CA)
From early childhood, I was my grandmother’s frequent companion at the neighborhood public bath house whose clients were the Jewish immigrant women who had settled with their families in South Philadelphia. The place was known as “the shvitz” (Yiddish for “sweat”), and an evening spent at this working class imitation of [...]

November 5, 2008

Blind Luck

by Beth Finke (Chicago, Illinois)
Every Wednesday, my Seeing-Eye dog, Hanni, leads me to the Chicago Cultural Center to teach a memoir-writing class for senior citizens.
Eighteen women with great names–Myrna, Sybil, Eldoris, Bea–who grew up on the South Side, in the suburbs, in Italy, in West Rogers Park. Some earned Masters degrees. One finished her undergraduate [...]